THE SORROWS OF JOSEPH

When we see a picture of Jesus hanging on the cross, we realize in a small way His great sorrows and sufferings. He suffered more than anyone ever has or ever will suffer. We also are aware of the sorrows of Mary, the Sorrowful Mother. However, we don't hear of the sorrows of St. Joseph.

That Jesus was born in a stable must have hurt Joseph deeply. He probably said to himself: “Can’t a husband and father do better for his wife and Baby?” Joseph must have suffered sorrow when he heard Simeon prophesy that Mary, Joseph’s wife, would be pierced with a sword of sorrow (Lk 2:35). When you love someone, it can be harder to see them suffer than to suffer yourself. Joseph also suffered when he had to get up and flee that night with his wife and his Child to Egypt (Mt 2:14). The family life of refugees is full of sorrow. How hard it must have been for the sorrowing Joseph (Lk 2:48) to realize that when Jesus said He had to be in His Father’s house, He was not referring to Joseph’s house (Lk 2:49). Also, Joseph suffered the daily sorrows of being looked down upon because of his lowly occupation (see Jn 6:42; Mk 6:3).

Finally, after a life of sorrows, Joseph died a happy death. He went to his Father’s house, the house where Jesus lived. There Jesus wiped every tear from Joseph’s eyes (Rv 7:17).